Schools in! Boys & Girls. . .

I think back to those Sunday evenings as a young boy scare and nervous about walking to schooln the next day on Monday morning which I now know was "Panic/Anxiety Attaches". . .The last thing a young boy or girl should have to worry about  when leaving the safety of their home to go to school each day is, being "Bullied". . . It truly feels like it all happened yesterday when I think back to those horrifying days of trying to make it to school without a small group of "Bullies" chasing me, verbally and pysically abusing me each and every day. . . I had absolutely "NO" idea why they picked on me each and every day of my childhood?  I am 44 years old, 6' 3", 250lbs and an ex-professional football player (CFL) and guess what??? It still hurts. . . For those of you that are being "Bullied" or doing the "Bullying" or just standing around watching the Bullies bullying, something needs to be done and something needs to be understood before this "Horrible" and "Life Altering" act can be stopped!?!

What you say?

What now?....For those being "Bullied", please understand it has nothing to do with you! Everyone has insecurities that they do not wish to deal with, so they delfect them to others. . .If you take the time to think, "why is this person "Bullying" me"? First of all they most likely are being "Bullied" at home. . .So their coupping necamism is to "Bully" someone else and make themselves feel superior to you. . .

For those of you "Bullying" others, please take a long hard look at what you are doing and try to remember how horrible it makes you feel when it happens to you and put a "STOP" to the cycle. . . You can be Proactive in the solution rather than Reactive. . .You will become a better person for it. . .I know it is easier for me to sit here and type this out and leave it at that but thats not what I am about. . .if anyone needs someone to listen then I am just a "Click" away. . .I can help you find a solution to your problem/issue and you will NOT feel alone ever again!

And as for the people whop just sit back and watch the "Bullies" picking on someone else just remember one thing. . .  that easily could be you. . . There is always strength in numbers thats why bullies are generally 2 or more kids. . .Take a stand now rather than later and it is NEVER too late to change. . . 

I may have been "Bullied" my entire childhood but guess what? I was never afraid to stand up for my beliefs. . .when the "Cool" kids or "Bullies" would say "Croonen stop being a fag or chicken and have a drag of this joint or cigarette with me/us". I would look right in their eyes and say, "I guess I am a fag or chicken because I will not smoke that with you or anyone"!

Guess what? Years later, all those kids that thought they were "cool" or "tough" have become "Followers" and I have become a strong Leader because I was always confident with myself and my decisions. . .

Please always try to talk to your parents, even if you think they will not understand? then try and help them understand. i had a great childhood as far as my family life went but when it came to school and being "Bullied" it was horrible and I could always turn to my dad or mom to lend an ear. . . most of the time they didnt understand what I was saying or going through but they listened. . .

Remember, If you dont have someone to listen, I am just a click away and will help you personally or help you find someone to talk to but YOU ARE NOT ALONE ! ! !

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